14 May 2009

Who I Am

My blog has identity issues.

I mean, "What's your blog about?" should probably have a more interesting answer than, "I dunno. Stuff I like. Or don't like. Or think about. Or do."

Yeah. Not exactly riveting, eh? Or specific.

So: What is my blog about? Me? Okay ... Who am I?
  • I'm a Mom-Who-Blogs. But I don't think I fit the MommyBlogger profile.
  • I have moments when I think I'm funny. But I don't think anyone is ever going to mistake this for a Humor Blog.
  • I sometimes mention my work, but this is definitely not a professional blog.
  • I like to talk about books and quotes. But this isn't really a Book Blog.
  • I sometimes comment on current events. But this isn't a political blog.
  • I like to share my love of all things geeky pop-culture. But not (I think) in an obsessive sort of way.
  • Some of what I write is probably pretty boring to some people, but I would hope that is not a blog-defining characteristic. :)
Ironically, in my super-secret alter-ego, I'm a public relations professional. My job is all about defining my goal ... identifying my audience ... directing my message .. targeting my communications.

But, here ... in my blog ... I don't have to do that. It's not so much that I'm missing my target as that I've just declined to identify one. As a marketing plan, that's a great big FAIL.

But that's just it. This blog isn't a job. And I don't want it to be. If I start "marketing" my blog ... trying to make it fit some niche definition ... well, that kind of defeats the purpose for me.

I love it when new people find my blog and have something to say about it. I think it's fun "meeting" people, getting feedback, engaging in conversation ... but that's not what drives me. That's not why I'm here. That's not "Who I Am".

Who I Am ... is a writer.

I write because I have to. Because I love to. Because I don't know what I'd do if I couldn't.

I'm lucky enough to get paid to do what I love, but that's not enough.

Don't get me wrong, I love the writing I get paid for. I really do. But, that writing is ... limited. Defined. Bound. Here, I have no restrictions. No rules. This is where I come to write about whatever happens to be on my mind.

I write about what inspires me, confuses me, amuses me, frustrates me, excites me.

I write about what I know, what I think, what I want, what I feel.

I write about what I love.

I write ...

Because I don't know how not to.


And that is Who I Am.

9 comments:

  1. Well said. I went through a blogging identity crisis at my old blog and carried over that new "mission statement" to my current one. I try to write about parenting through various lenses, either my personal experiences as a father, or through stuff I experienced growing up.

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  2. Love it! And I have the same issue. A neighbor recently asked what my blog was about and I replied "stuff." Ooohhh...riveting. I'm shocked she didn't excuse herself to log in right then. And yes...because I write about my kid sometimes (a major part of my life) does not a mommyblogger make me. It's tough. (And I'm also in marketing and know that the first step in writing anything is identifying your audience.) Well put, this post. You writer, you!

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  3. I understand. Writing is a part of who I am, too. I have kept journals since I could write....
    Great post..

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  4. I love it.

    I have no idea what my blog is about either.

    I do have some idea about what my blog isn't about (crafts, receipes, only my son, etc.), but I couldn't deserve it if I tried.

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  5. But isn't that the great part about a blog...that it can be different on different days? It's a reflection of you as a writer and a person. You don't have one interest. So you share what you like. And hey look...here we are reading it. So you must be doing something right.

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  6. This post could totally be me, except for the part about being in PR, I was in HR (hey - that's only 1 letter away)

    The Geeky obsessiveness thing is a fine line to walk - it's hard not to squee like the fangirls were are at times :p

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  7. Yep. I feel the exact same way. I feel like writing is in my blood. And even if the world tells me I suck, I'll still have to keep right on doing it.

    I think your blog is perfect just the way it is. Your blog is about YOU, wonderful, amazing, funny, fascinating YOU. That's enough for me.

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  8. hi! this is my first visit to your blog.

    and like you (and many other commenters), i have no idea what my blog is about either. originally it was intended as an art blog, but art school really ruined art for me in a lot of ways. so now i just post whatever and whenever i feel like it. i like it better that way. no need to pigeon hole ourselves anyway.

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  9. I know this was written months ago but I'm new here and was looking through your archives.

    I liked this one the best.

    I'm a journalist, and therefore objective and impartial. I'm like Switzerland when I write during the day. Tell both sides, get quotes, lather, rinse, repeat.

    But here I can write what I want, when I want, how I want. I don't sell ads on my blog and I don't do it to make money. I do it because I can't not do it.

    Nice post and great blog. Adding it to my reader.

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